"Why Me?"
This is the most frequent question that one asks themselves usually.
I was wondering that why the frequency of this question occurs mostly in bad times, as in when you are sorrowful, gloomy, betrayed, failed, lost someone special, could not achieve your goal, scolded, used/misused etc. It's a true fact that one will never say or ask "Why me?" when he or she is happy,blessed with proper food,shelter,clothes,consistently holding position,provided with maximum freedom and liberty,having family and friends etc...
My observation makes me believe that everyone wants to be perfect or wants to be like other.
Well, first of all, no one is perfect, except the Almighty, if someone seems to be perfect, that does not mean that he or she does not lack in something.Why do you want to be like other??? Don't you like the way you are??? I can definitely understand that some people act as a role model for us in our life that becomes our ideal self and makes us move towards self-actualization. But here, from "want to be someone", I mean that as in appearance, personality ,want family like others etc.Yes, one should adopt good habits from other but should never show ungratefulness by saying "Why me?"
Do you know what is the beauty of Humane kind? They believe what they want to believe, they think what they want to think and they understand what they see or listen, instead of trying to understand it actually.For instance, A jovial girl, who cracks senseless jokes, makes you laugh, cheer you up, brings smile at your face ; 97.8 % people will perceive her to be a happy go lucky person or will understand her as if she does not face any problem. But that is something not necessary. Only a true believer,understanding person and a wise thinker will be able to see pain beyond her happiness if she is in pain.Whereas the rest of the fellows would wish to be like her and would be wanting attention like her by saying "Why her and not me?".
Something which may make you understand my points and that may prove to bring amendments in your box of thoughts:
Everybody has a problem in life, no one's life is perfect.
The reason why we see other's life as perfect, is that some people don't take it as a problem or get used to it or are just hopeful and make efforts to solve it without letting anyone know....!
That's life!
So be grateful for how your life is or be hopeful and make efforts to survive sagaciously and happily.
This is the most frequent question that one asks themselves usually.
I was wondering that why the frequency of this question occurs mostly in bad times, as in when you are sorrowful, gloomy, betrayed, failed, lost someone special, could not achieve your goal, scolded, used/misused etc. It's a true fact that one will never say or ask "Why me?" when he or she is happy,blessed with proper food,shelter,clothes,consistently holding position,provided with maximum freedom and liberty,having family and friends etc...
My observation makes me believe that everyone wants to be perfect or wants to be like other.
Well, first of all, no one is perfect, except the Almighty, if someone seems to be perfect, that does not mean that he or she does not lack in something.Why do you want to be like other??? Don't you like the way you are??? I can definitely understand that some people act as a role model for us in our life that becomes our ideal self and makes us move towards self-actualization. But here, from "want to be someone", I mean that as in appearance, personality ,want family like others etc.Yes, one should adopt good habits from other but should never show ungratefulness by saying "Why me?"
Do you know what is the beauty of Humane kind? They believe what they want to believe, they think what they want to think and they understand what they see or listen, instead of trying to understand it actually.For instance, A jovial girl, who cracks senseless jokes, makes you laugh, cheer you up, brings smile at your face ; 97.8 % people will perceive her to be a happy go lucky person or will understand her as if she does not face any problem. But that is something not necessary. Only a true believer,understanding person and a wise thinker will be able to see pain beyond her happiness if she is in pain.Whereas the rest of the fellows would wish to be like her and would be wanting attention like her by saying "Why her and not me?".
Something which may make you understand my points and that may prove to bring amendments in your box of thoughts:
Everybody has a problem in life, no one's life is perfect.
The reason why we see other's life as perfect, is that some people don't take it as a problem or get used to it or are just hopeful and make efforts to solve it without letting anyone know....!
So be grateful for how your life is or be hopeful and make efforts to survive sagaciously and happily.
